Sunday 4 July 2021

My Conundrums of the Surname and Lineage

Conundrums:
Why does the woman change her surname when she marries a male?
Why does a child of this union take on the married surname?

Think about this...
A child grows in a womans womb, therefore he/she is 100% a product of that woman's lineage.
The male/spouse may in fact not be the other half of this child.
Shouldn't the woman carry the surname of "her" line and pass it on to a child?
In fact, I believe that is the way it should be!

You can have the best paper trail confirming your lines, step into DNA and a person's world can unravel.

I have had an unenviable situation where I tested a male cousin to confirm our Lucas line.  His DNA results came back and it turns out he is a name "only" child of this line.

Added: 4 Jul 2021
Last year I also had a complete change of one family line, the mother had a child to her former brother-in-law, DNA brought this one to the surface, imagine telling the person his father isn't his father.  It was hard!  Although before his passing he did get to know his half-sister a little.  Precious time was had.

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